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Allaah Says (what means): "By
the grace of Allaah, you are gentle towards the people; if you had been
stern and ill-tempered, they would have dispersed from round about you" [Quran, 3: 159]
About himself the prophet said: "Allaah
has sent me as an apostle so that I may demonstrate perfection of
character, refinement of manners and loftiness of deportment." [Maalik and Ahmad]
By nature he
was gentle and kind hearted, always inclined to be gracious and to
overlook the faults of others. Politeness and courtesy, compassion and
tenderness, simplicity and humility, sympathy and sincerity were some of
the keynotes of his character. In the cause of right and justice he
could be resolute and severe but more often than not, his severity was
tempered with generosity. He had charming manners which won him the affection of his followers and secured their devotion. Though virtual king of Arabia and an apostle of Allaah, he never assumed an air of superiority. Not that he had to conceal any such vein by practice and artifice: with fear of Allaah, sincere humility was ingrained in his heart. He used to say: "I am a Prophet of Allaah but I do not know what will be my end." [Al-Bukhaari]
In one of his sermons calculated to instill the fear of Allaah and the day of reckoning in the hearts of men, he said: "O
people of Quraysh be prepared for the hereafter, I cannot save you from
the punishment of Allaah; O Bani Abd Manaaf, I cannot save you from
Allaah; O Abbaas, son of Abdul-Mutalib, I cannot protect you either; O
Faatimah, daughter of Muhammad, even you I cannot save." [Al-Bukhaari & Muslim]
He used to pray: "O Allaah! I am but a man. If I hurt any one in any manner, then forgive me and do not punish me." [Ahmad]
He always received people with courtesy and showed respect to older people and stated:
"To honor an old man is to show glorification to Allaah."
He
would not deny courtesy even to wicked persons. It is stated that a
person came to his house and asked permission for admission. The prophet

remarked that he was not a good person but might be admitted. When he
came in and while he remained in the house, he was shown full courtesy.
When he left 'Aa'ishah said: "You did not think well of this man, but you treated him so well."
The prophet replied: "He
is a bad person in the sight of Allaah who does not behave courteously
and people shun his company because of his bad manners." [Al-Bukhaari]
He
was always the first to greet another and would not withdraw his hand
from a handshake till the other man withdrew his. If one wanted to say
something in his ears, he would not turn away till one had finished as
reported in the books of Abu Daawood and At-Tirmithi . He did not like people to get up for him and used to say: "Let him, who likes people to stand up in his honor, he should seek a place in hell." [Abu Daawood].
He would himself, however, stand up when any dignitary came to him. He
had stood up to receive the wet nurse who had reared him in infancy
and had spread his own sheet for her. His foster brother was given
similar treatment. He
avoided sitting at a prominent place in a gathering, so much so that
people coming in had difficulty in spotting him and had to ask which one
was the Prophet . Quite frequently uncouth bedouins accosted him in their own gruff and impolite manner but he never took offence. [Abu Daawood]
He used to visit the poorest of ailing persons and exhorted all Muslims to do likewise [Al-Bukhaari]. He
would sit with the humblest of persons saying that righteousness alone
was the criterion of one's superiority over another. He
invariably invited people be they slaves, servants or the poorest
believers, to partake with him of his scanty meals. [At-Tirmithi]
Whenever he visited a person he would first greet him and then take his permission to enter the house. He
advised the people to follow this etiquette and not to get annoyed if
anyone declined to give permission, for it was quite likely the person
concerned was busy otherwise and did not mean any disrespect.
There was no type of household work too low or too undignified for him . 'Aa'ishah
has stated: "He always joined in household work and would at times
mend his clothes, repair his shoes and sweep the floor. He would milk,
tether, and feed his animals and do the household shopping."
[Al-Bukhaari]
He
would not hesitate to do the menial work of others, particularly of
orphans and widows [An-Nasaa'ee, Ad-Daarami]. Once when there was no
male member in the house of the companion Khabaab Ibn Al-Arat who had gone to the battlefield, he used to go to his house daily and milk his cattle for the inhabitants [Ibn Saad].http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/index.php?page=articles&id=136184